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How to Care for an Adopted, Foster, or Generally Fearful Dog (Part I)

Friday, April 9th, 2010

The first priority with an adopted, rescue, or foster dog is to have the dog feel safe and build trust. Dogs that have had to change homes are usually traumatized. The more changes in settings and the higher number of past homes the greater the traumatic effect on the dogs.

The first thing to recognize is the resilience of each dog is different and backgrounds vary. For some dogs, your home will be the first normal, calm, and safe environment the dog has experienced.

What happened the first sixteen weeks of the dog’s life will have a profound effect on the development, social and coping skills throughout the dog’s life.

Some of the most psychologically damaged dogs I have encountered are dogs that have been extremely isolated in outdoor kennels, tied to doghouses, puppy mill, or breeder dogs, with little exposure to new people and the sights and sounds of the world.

I recommend the book Stress in Dogs by Martina Sholz & Clarissa von Reinhardt (This book is really excellent for anyone with an adopted dog or fostering dogs or just have a sensitive or anxious dog. Can order through www.dogwise.com or www.amazon.com

At first provide as quiet and peaceful an environment as possible. For many adopted dogs the effects of past traumas will not emerge for a few months so proceed slowly and always err on the side of caution. Adding too much activity and new stresses in the beginning may create behavior problems that could have been prevented with more gradual transitions.

Think of it as rehabilitating not dog training. Most dog training advice is for completely confident well adjusted dogs, this advice often does not apply in the case of the adopted/foster dog.

In my adult life, I have one way or another adopted all of my dogs. Some proved with time to be very adaptable, and others had deeply ingrained fears and anxieties along with poor coping skills. Each dog is a little different much like people.

I recommend creating a peaceful dog proofed space for the dog away from outside & inside sounds. I find most of these dogs do better in an exercise pen rather than a crate.

Many of these dogs have had bad experiences with confinement in crates, therefore; the added space of the exercise pen can work well for them. Put exercise pen on inexpensive carpet or if dog will chew it or not housebroken a big cut out piece of linoleum.

Play soft classical music or buy Through a Dog’s Ear, music created to relax dogs. Provide lots of safe and fun toys and chew items. Just like babies, dogs should not have anything that can be swallowed. Good toys for stuffing with food and treats are Kong Toys, Busy Buddy toys from the company Premier.

Good foods for stuffing are: peanut butter, fat free cream cheese, fat free plain yogurt frozen with treats frozen in freezer, avoid anything with chemicals and dyes and of course partially hydrogenated oils. For all natural chew items, bigger is better to prevent swallowing small pieces, like bully sticks from better small owner pet stores or online, get ones from the U.S. Merrick Co. makes some good natural treats, smoked stuffed bones. Balls at appropriate size, rope toys as long as dog doesn’t shred them are good. Buster Cube toy dispenses food randomly and is tough toy. These are just a few good toys.

Remember NOT to use any punishment like threats, sound makers, shock collars, choke chains, verbal scolding, spray bottles, forced handling, etc. I have seen these practices create huge hard to repair behavior issues and will destroy trust in people.  

Chewing releases stress and will calm the dog so have lots available. Cover any windows where dog could see people or dogs outside or use baby gates to keep dog from rooms with windows where people, cars, etc. pass.

Feed dog in Ex Pen. If multiple dogs, feed all separately so they can eat without worry.

If the dog is afraid and cautious in house and/or yard, let the dog get comfortable in those spaces first before going out on outings.

When the dog is comfortable in the home environment, go out to very quiet areas and for short periods initially. I usually start with a quiet park trail at a quiet time of day and week. Most dogs do well in a no pull harness with clip on front of chest. Clip to harness and flat collar at first to ensure dog cannot wriggle out of harness. I like either the no pull body harness from the company Premier, or the Sense-ation harness from Softouch Concepts. Read instructions for all of this stuff, because there are important details. Sense-ation harness is only for walking not running, be sure it does not rub behind legs. For extremely fearful dogs that are afraid of handling put on a regular harness that can stay on and clips to leash along the back of dog. Some dogs are so afraid of people they must wear this with permanent leash because of extreme fear of handling. Use 6ft leash for most dogs. NO retractable leashes, these can lead to behavior problems, injury, poor control, and break often. Speaking of which, have your contact information on the dog before you even get the dog home. Use temporary write-on tag if necessary. The most common time for a dog to run away is when he is relocated to a new place or in transit to new place.

So for the first few weeks when this dog is ready, bring lots of irresistible food (ie. diced pieces of boiled chicken) on all outings, I usually bring around 2 cups and save any leftover in fridge for next outing. Let the dog sniff and take his time, so he feels safe in new environment. Detour away from people and other dogs at first, feed while you do this. This will set you up for success. Try to remain calm and relaxed while out, and don’t scold the dog for reacting to things. Keep quiet or use a soft gentle voice.

Avoid dog parks. These are often frequented by dogs with poor social skills and people that are misunderstanding bullying behavior for play behavior or, I hate to say it, are not using good judgment about looking out for the welfare of other people and dogs at the park. A bad experience could damage your dog and be overwhelming for an adopted dog. Wait for at least a few weeks before introducing dog friends and be sure these are mellow dogs and that your adopted dog doesn’t already have a bad association with dogs as many do. Many dogs live wonderful lives with people and not dogs. The exception would be a dog under approximately 6 months old. In this case, you want to be in a very positive and controlled dog class but again stay within the pup’s comfort level, don’t just throw him into a big group of dogs.

If you have other household animals, do gradual supervised introductions over a few weeks. The dog will do better if introduction is slow. Always, err on the side of caution.

If your new dog comes with common ordinary dog behaviors and needs some training, train without punishment. Start with a controlled setting, use a leash if you need a little more control. Use well timed positive reinforcement to teach desirable behaviors. Ignore unwanted behaviors like jumping up, being mouthy. The rewarded behaviors like sit, four paws on the floor, lying down, eye contact, will increase. Go to my blog at www.trainyourbestfriend.com to look for video example links coming soon. Often doing less and staying quiet, relaxed, calm, and still around dogs helps them quiet down. As famous dog expert Jean Donaldson says, the first question about each dog is “Is the dog upset?”, if yes then use classical conditioning to gradually change a bad association with something like car rides into a good association and this solves the issue.

An example of using counter classical conditioning, is to sit in yard with a dog, that gets very agitated any time a person walks by along fence, on leash with lots of over the top yummy food and the moment AFTER the dog looks in direction or you hear or see person walking by you feed the dog continuously until the person has passed and cannot hear person then feed a couple more seconds and stop. You do this each time someone passes and you keep dog out of yard when not working on exercise so the dog doesn’t see people passing without food only to ruin the great new association you are trying to build. Jean Donaldson’t book available online called “Mine!” has an outstanding explanation of how classical conditioning works and all the necessary details. It also has some excellent exercised for handling and restraint for vet visit as well as when necessary muzzle conditioning. These parts of the book are more than worth the price of the book even if your dog doesn’t guard things use the relevant for your dog sections of this book.

If the dog is not “upset”, than you can do normal training using the things that reinforce the dog in other words things the dog likes like food, toys, games, whatever the dog enjoys.

Introduce new things and situations gradually after a few weeks or when the dog is ready for more fearful dogs, when the dog is ready.

Never force a person, dog, or situation on a dog. Fear can create a permanent memory and cause problems in the long run. You want to avoid a behavior problem by introducing new things, people, or dogs, etc. when the dog is ready. Patience and time work wonders with these dogs.

Having Guests with Our Adopted Dog Child

Monday, December 14th, 2009

Well, I am happy to say, the weekend went better than expected with my mother staying. This is our second overnight guest occasion with our rescue dog, Charlie. The first guests were a dog savvy friend and her young son. Let’s just say that visit didn’t involve much sleeping on anyone’s part. My other half had to go in to work the next morning and was pretty cranky with the whining and pacing. I ended up sleeping on the couch with Charlie on leash, well very little sleeping, and Charlie would not settle down until the house had been completely free of any sounds for a few hours when he finally begrudgingly slept.  I woke with a stiff neck. Our dog is very anxious around being separated from anyone in the house by doors or anything. We have done lots of work on this and I do exercises as this situation inevitably comes up as repair people have to move about the house and it is not safe and undesirable to have a Collie anxiously crowding them.

 We have made some good progress recently and Charlie is developing some coping and adapting skills with new things in the home. So after canceling friends that were planning on coming to the house, we had my mother stay over. Worst-case scenario was we all wouldn’t get any sleep but I was hoping since this was one quiet adult that we would do better now. Well, Charlie was very excited about my mother and if I didn’t manage him with great treat rewards and have him go to his bed, he would herd her and block any walking progress and wanted sniff her and nibble on her clothes, which is a nervous habit of his but he did eventually lay down although with big sighs.  Progress!

The first night I knew he would be concerned about being in our room with someone else in the house and indeed he did keep us up for at least an hour whining but he did eventually give up and go to sleep. Progress, less fussing. The next night there was only the briefest whining at door and then he settled in for sleep again with lots of sighing which he does when concerned but we got a good nights sleep. Yes, progress and adapting! Yeah!

 My mother drove home yesterday and this morning when I came down to make coffee I heard Charlie fussing and whining upstairs and I knew he was looking for my mother. I opened the door to the

Grandma Judy with Charlie

Grandma Judy with Charlie

room so he could see she was gone. I left him on the guest bed and he stayed there for a while but now we are back to normal.

 Yeah, progress. We are climbing a steep hill to normal but at least we haven’t slid back down to the bottom and the view is improving all the time.

Pick Signs of Stress in Video

Monday, November 16th, 2009

See if you can pick out the body language or things that reveal stress? Add them to comment section. Dog experts please just list one thing to give others a chance. Pardon my atrocious video skills. I am learning how to do video.  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46TjGhoXKXY

Great weekend with our rescue dog Charlie!

Monday, October 26th, 2009

IMG_8014Charlie has lived with us for eight months now and the past weekend was the best I can remember. We hiked with Charlie on wooded trails  he was familiar with and took photos. I don’t think he barely barked at anything even a jogger on trail!! He seemed pretty relaxed compare to the nervous way he used to behave. It was a beautiful fall day on Sunday and we got to enjoy time with our dog after many months of preparing for just that with lots of behavior modification. I didn’t have to do much to keep him on track and happy in the house and yard this weekend. Of course, you could still see some of his anxious behaviors but it has gotten much more manageable on the day-to-day stuff of an ordinary weekend. After we had Charlie for several weeks it became clear he had a set of complex problems and he was going to need help beyond basic training and even basic behavior modification. After consulting many other behavior experts and researching online and books, which frankly are really lacking when it comes to the complex dog most are geared towards dog that simply need training or have fears that are pretty simple to address, I have concluded Charlie has generalized anxiety and some kind of separation anxiety like attachment to my husband and several other lesser behavior issues. This is as close as I am going to get to putting a label on his issues. Hey, real life is messy at best. With so many issues to address and a dog that was anxious within the home we decided to simplify his life as much as possible. We simplified his schedule and kept his routine as calm as possible. We cancelled trips, guests, and forgo our usual dog outings to new places. We gated house so he would stay away from front windows and obsessing about outside activities in neighborhood. I added blinds to one room so he would have a calm room without distraction for his crate. We decided to work on his problems in the house before any others. I will add more of what worked for us next post but we had a great weekend. Yeah!

Week Five with Our Adopted Dog

Friday, April 3rd, 2009

If you have adopted an untrained and unsocialized dog, let me just say you’re entitled to be tired and drained and maybe emotional. I am an experienced dog trainer and at week five I am tired, drained, and emotional. It is easier for me since I know how to deal with all the issues that can come up with an adopted dog so my hats off to all of you that take this on and have learn all this stuff along the way.

What helps me is to set dates on calendar to check in and see how things are going with our new dog Charlie. It took him a year to become the dog I adopted so we are going to redo the first year of his life from this point forward and it will probably take at least twice that time. Yes, we have missed that oh so important socialization stage of his development when he was a young puppy but we will do our best to have a do over. We will have to take it very slow since the world is very overwhelming for Charlie right now. My alarm clock even concerns him. I try to jot down a few words each day to record how it is going.

If you have adopted a dog or puppy be sure to mark your successes down on the calendar or keep a journal to see how far you have come. Sometimes we forget how things were on day one. We have achieved many things in five weeks but it could be easy to lose track of the successes with so many things still to achieve.

Some of our successes at five weeks are: being able to walk nicely and quietly by a horse, coming in the yard off lead when called, many weeks without any pee or poo in house, laying quietly in house and yard most of the time without barking at outside activities, not being afraid of stairs, the coffee grinder, the fire truck without siren, distant gunshots, trucks outside when riding in car. He is gradually getting better about being brushed. Learning some training basics at home and on walk like keeping leash loose, eye contact, sit and wait at door, retrieve, target hand and lid and Steve, come, and follow and lots more.

I have come to conclusion that it will be a long time until Charlie is able to go to big hectic dog events with me as I planned but that is okay. That is real life you have to adjust your expectations when the real nature of your dog is revealed, which took a few weeks for Charlie. Your new dog will change you and change your family just as any new member would and usually in the end it is for the better. Whether you end up being a more patient and sensitive person or even a more social person as you find yourself meeting people as you find avenues for your dog’s energy and intelligence.